In the last 5 days, both my parents and Kevin's parents came to visit us. We see Kevin's parents pretty frequently because they live an hour and a half away near Milwaukee. This was their third visit since I moved in, in August, and we've seen them a few times in New Berlin as they have taken care of Hank (our dog) a few weekends we were out of town.
My parents, on the other hand, live four hours away in my hometown of Stillwater, MN, and are not fond of long car trips and staying in hotels as they were when I was a kid. So this was the first time they've been to visit me in Madison since I was in college. I was super excited to have them come and experience a few new places in Madison. And to meet Hank.
Before they arrived on Wednesday afternoon, I was in full-scale "ohmygosh we have to clean the house because my PARENTS are coming" mode. For the first year that Kevin owned his house, there were 1-3 other guys living with him. Luckily they were fairly clean and responsible guys so it wasn't too hard to de-clutter, sanitize, and organize the place once I moved in. However, my parents, while less obsessed with organization like me, have a really clean house and suddenly I noticed all these things that needed cleaning. Being an only child does not save you from the critical eyes of your parents! So I folded/put away laundry, swept and vacuumed the entire house (Hank is currently in the midst of shedding his summer undercoat), and dusted/wiped down every surface imaginable. Kevin, sensing my franticness, helped me out. A similar routine was repeated yesterday, before the arrival of Kevin's parents, except that I was the solo in my cleaning and organizing efforts because Kevin's favorite soccer... sorry... football team was on TV.
Our day consisted for visiting
Olbrich Botantical Gardens on the east side, touring the
Wisconsin State Capitol building, and having dinner at
The Old Fashioned on the Capitol square. It was a short visit but stopping at three Madison staples was awesome.
(My apologies for the lack of pictures since my digital camera crapped out on me a few weeks back and neither Kevin nor I remembered his camera.)
At Olbrich we decided, since it was a pretty nice day, to wander the outdoor gardens. They apparently have 16 acres worth of outdoor gardens but I doubt we saw that much in our two hour visit. A lot of the flowers were past their prime but here and there we saw bunches of mums that were still providing glorious colors. We still had plenty to view since there were fall grasses and other hardy plants still going strong. The highlight of Olbrich was the Thai Pavilion and Garden. I imagine it looks even better in the spring and summer. The beautiful pavilion was a gift from Thailand and is one of two located in the entire country (only two others are located outside of Thailand). My parents and I got a picture in front of it, using my iPhone. Turned out pretty nice despite our blinking issues!
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| Take 1: I blinked (which hardly ever happens). |
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| Take 2: Dad's eyes are closed (which happens a LOT). |
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The Capitol was our next stop. We had every intention of attending the 4:00 tour but it turns out that after Labor Day the last tour of the day is at 3pm so we did our own walk around tour of the building. My iPhone had less luck taking non-blurry images in the low light so I don't have any images from the Capitol. I highly recommend going if you are in Madison - even if you only get to see the rotunda, it's worth it. (There are a lot of restaurants, bars, and shops near the Capitol so it's not like it'll be the only reason for heading to the heart of the isthmus.)
The four of us hiked up to the base of the dome and walked around the outside. Kevin and I pointed out landmarks and UW-Madison campus buildings to my parents. The Capitol is, by law, the tallest building in the downtown area
(no building in a mile radius can be taller than the base of the columns that support the dome). I've always loved this aspect of Madison. It really is a handsome looking building and I always enjoy getting glimpses of it when I'm downtown - especially at night. Afterwards we viewed the mini exhibit hosting pictures of the capitol building throughout its existence, as well as its predecessors. The rest of the time we spent in the rotunda; admiring the architecture and artwork.
Our final stop was The Old Fashioned which is a particular favorite of mine. The restaurant/bar is named after the drink (you may have noticed Don Draper drinking a few in Mad Men) and boy do they make good ones. Normally, the drink is made with brandy, or sometimes whiskey but at home my dad makes ours with Southern Comfort. I've tried it with other liquors but still prefer Southern Comfort. So my parents and I each had a SoCo old fashioned while Kevin had his with Makers Mark. We ordered the deep fried cheese curds - the best in the city - and took forever to decide
what to order. Kevin's favorite, a roast beef sandwich, had been taken off the menu so he order the Old Fashioned House burger which came topped with a fried egg (YUM). My dad order a sandwich with walleye, my mom had the grilled chicken breast sandwich (with
amazing bacon), and I ordered a sandwich which had, among other veggies, grilled eggplant, a portabella mushroom, goat cheese and black olive tapenade. It was fantastic, as was the entire visit with my parents.
Our visit with Kevin's parents was equally enjoyable. Our dinner consisted of two whole grilled chickens and a plethora of delicious veggies. We spent the rest of Sunday night talking, drinking wine and whiskey (
not together), and watching a couple of movies.
How about you guys... do you get to see your parents/siblings very much? Are you more prone to getting out of the house and doing stuff or do you just hang out and enjoy each others' company?